No Time's Alright For Fighting

Why are we wasting our time hurling abuse at each other? Do I have to keep repeating, "Can't we all just get along?" all the time? It pains me to see friends arguing over even the smallest of problems and making it a big one in the end. Sometimes, my heart is filled with the desire to knock some sense into them.

I don't really know much about what caused all this feuding. Preferably, I don't want and don't have to know at all. What I do know is I should try my best to facilitate somewhat of a peace treaty between fighting friends. Seriously, why are we all fighting each other when the energy is best used on more practical things like finishing our assignments and stuff? We are only wasting away the time we have holding grudges, constantly arguing and fighting because in the end we're only making ourselves worse than before.

I've heard that bitter people have a higher tendency to die at an earlier age. So I've heard. It seems that regardless of the time spent on exercising, these individuals are still prone to suffer these complications compared to people who are always interacting peacefully with others. C'mon, if you love yourself just do a little favor and let the enmities subside. It'll do wonders.

Life indeed can be full of surprises, but that should come to no surprise. Truthfully, a family friend said, "Life is simple; we just make it complicated." Sometimes, I find that to be the truth with all of us. In our pursuit for material wealth, we transform and become something that is very unlike what we are now. The materialistic mind-set can get you into trouble if you fall for its tricks, and believe me there are a lot of things Life can throw at you that you've never experienced before.

We've had our fair share of tough days and fighting days. I had many a quarrel with my friends before (well, thankfully not a lot of arguments) but in the end we always forgive and forget and allow Life to resume as usual, with the usual interactions and all. So why not do the same? Or maybe take the initiative to be the forgiving one? Let (both) your troubles fall behind you. Time indeed facilitates our thought-processes if we allow it. (As I mentioned before: PATIENCE)

One problem why we can't seem to mend bridges is mostly because, well, men tend to put their pride above all else. (Maybe except money) Their egotistic nature prevents them from being sensitive to certain issues currently at hand. And sometimes they can even be insensitive to their wife's needs. Or they pursue their careers only and let the wife do everything else like she were a slave? Even when it comes to issues outside the family, there'll be cases. Men have lots of reasons to start a war, and they will start one without hesitation - and it takes men of thought to make sure these conflicts come to a halt. Seriously, guys, can we start using our heads more than our hands to take care of problems?

As for the women, I am not commenting. Not because I'm shy or anything, but it's obvious that I'm NOT a lady, and that prevents me from continuing the comment. If you do have a say on this, do drop by. (If I discover any foul language, implication of insult, resentment between the lines, etc then your post will be off the Wall)

But please! Enough of infighting. Enough of the dissatisfaction, disappointment and hatred with others - let them go. Sure, it's hard to - but then again you'll have to. Tell yourself it's not for the other party, but for your sake. Flawed as we are, it is only human that we make sure all things go back to what they used to be. No more.