Think of 10 things that make you who you are.
Voice them out loud.
Think of 3 things you feel needs a makeover.
Voice those out loud too.
Process all that you've thought and said.
The time it takes for you to do both has a very large difference.
It's been said before that a person can only say nothing but praise for himself/herself and disgust for others deemed of a lower class in any aspect. Vice versa applies.
Now, think of 20 people you dislike.
From that list cut it down to the top 5 you hate.
Easy?
Now, apart from your parents and your true-to-life BFFs, list 6 people who have changed your life for the better. And I don't mean simple changes. In simple terms, people who brought the MOST PROFOUND changes in you - changes that have shaped you to become someone new, or someone better.
How about that?
Process all that you've thought and said.
Better rearrange your priorities.
On another note (one which is related to this post) I would like all of you to know that if you hate me down to the smallest bone, then I'm not going to make you change. Keep it to yourselves. And keep it up, for all I care. Fuck up my life if it makes you happy. I bend and break like any other ordinary human. But I relish the challenge.
So adieu for now.