Evangelists. Not that I have anything against them, but I don't understand why they're so intent on converting everybody.
Shouldn't they have some respect for the other person's religion if he/she doesn't want to convert?
This was the case just this Wednesday (a public holiday, no less) when a woman (of which group/church I will not state here) were in my neighborhood. One woman came to the gate and talked to my mum about "the changing world" and all that jazz. Sure, it's changing, we can see it in the papers, duh.
After she left (leaving behind a magazine or something) another group happened to pass by. Another woman came to the gate and started asking the same things, this time to me. I kept insisting - very politely, mind you - that her friend had already come and left us a nice little gift. But the aunty just kept on insisting to talk to us and trying to convince us she's up to no harm, until finally she relented and left us a present too.
My mum was annoyed. "Nuisance(s)," she muttered angrily.
C'mon now, we're happy with our religion and faith. Why should we convert? Why, 'cause - according to some hardliners - if we don't we go to Hell? Bullshit.
None of MY Christian friends (and I have many) ever asked me to convert. And they never told me that I'd go to Hell if I didn't. So what's wrong with this picture?
Let's not get too overanxious with all this, can we? Everybody has a choice. So please, understand that WE have already made our choice. Thank you.
Cheers all.
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Thursday, August 18, 2011
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Insights: Why?
On the subject of our previous matter, misinterpretations continue to poison the minds of many under the pretense of what is really "the right thing to do." In fact, it's wrong. Very wrong.
Like how some people say that, by not converting, you have yourself a one-way ticket to Hell. I don't think so. In fact, I beg to differ. Many friends of mine say that no matter who you are, God still loves you the same way He loves us. So why are they using fear to force people to convert, simply because they'll go to Hell if they don't?
It's a matter of choice if someone wishes to convert or not. Do we really expect everyone would want to convert? And do you really think you can get away sin-free for making such false allegations?
Can't we all remember what happened back in America in those days? Discrimination was such a serious topic that stained the history of America with prejudice and unnecessary bloodshed. Malaysia suffered from that very same problem in the sixties. Do we really want to go back to those times?
In fact, there are some people who are hypocrites. They claim themselves to be true to their faith, but their claims are baseless when they indulge in sin and they don't realize it. They think that they're so devout and faithful that they don't realize that they are corrupting the very faith they practise every day. It's not because they are sinful, but they are blinded by what they think is the truth.
Some people, in their haste or zealousness, don't realize that what they do only goes against what it is they practise. For example, you believe that there is good in others, but instead you only see, hear and speak of 'evil' in others. How would you know that that person is truly the Devil's advocate? What real proof do you have that speaks volumes of his/her behavior or principles?
Or you believe trust is the key to good working relationships, but instead you backstab your closest colleague just to get that promotion. Or you believe that everyone is different from you, but instead you're always making comparisons every day. Is that what someone should really do every single day?
What would your God say about such behavior? Can that really be tolerated? If someone did one of the above to you, how would you feel? And how would you react? If you decide that you should fight fire with fire, then I'm afraid you're a lost cause.
Is that really the becoming of a human being? To the extent we give up so much to please our little selves? Whatever happened to compassion, happiness and love for one another? Have they already been forgotten?
I'd say they have been so since a long time ago.
We've come a long way now, but no one seems to have learned from our past mistakes. No one seems to care whether or not it matters. They'd rather live a contented life as they continue to bloat and spoil themselves in the revelries of sin. And even if they don't plague themselves with sin, there are still those who don't realize the mistakes they made and the mess they left behind.
But despite all the negativity that continues to spread like wildfire, I still stay hopefuly that the future will be a bright one. While I admit there are certain quarters who only fill me with a sense of regret - regret in the fact they will never know of change until it's too late - I see a handful of my friends who continue to give me hope, that there still is good in the heart of Mankind. Could we be the last of Man who can redeem itself of its sins? If God does decide that his covenant with Noah has been broken by our actions, would He bring Judgment Day upon us all without hesitation?
Who would He spare in that time?
I can only pray that, in time, I will have the answers I seek.
Like how some people say that, by not converting, you have yourself a one-way ticket to Hell. I don't think so. In fact, I beg to differ. Many friends of mine say that no matter who you are, God still loves you the same way He loves us. So why are they using fear to force people to convert, simply because they'll go to Hell if they don't?
It's a matter of choice if someone wishes to convert or not. Do we really expect everyone would want to convert? And do you really think you can get away sin-free for making such false allegations?
Can't we all remember what happened back in America in those days? Discrimination was such a serious topic that stained the history of America with prejudice and unnecessary bloodshed. Malaysia suffered from that very same problem in the sixties. Do we really want to go back to those times?
In fact, there are some people who are hypocrites. They claim themselves to be true to their faith, but their claims are baseless when they indulge in sin and they don't realize it. They think that they're so devout and faithful that they don't realize that they are corrupting the very faith they practise every day. It's not because they are sinful, but they are blinded by what they think is the truth.
Some people, in their haste or zealousness, don't realize that what they do only goes against what it is they practise. For example, you believe that there is good in others, but instead you only see, hear and speak of 'evil' in others. How would you know that that person is truly the Devil's advocate? What real proof do you have that speaks volumes of his/her behavior or principles?
Or you believe trust is the key to good working relationships, but instead you backstab your closest colleague just to get that promotion. Or you believe that everyone is different from you, but instead you're always making comparisons every day. Is that what someone should really do every single day?
What would your God say about such behavior? Can that really be tolerated? If someone did one of the above to you, how would you feel? And how would you react? If you decide that you should fight fire with fire, then I'm afraid you're a lost cause.
Is that really the becoming of a human being? To the extent we give up so much to please our little selves? Whatever happened to compassion, happiness and love for one another? Have they already been forgotten?
I'd say they have been so since a long time ago.
We've come a long way now, but no one seems to have learned from our past mistakes. No one seems to care whether or not it matters. They'd rather live a contented life as they continue to bloat and spoil themselves in the revelries of sin. And even if they don't plague themselves with sin, there are still those who don't realize the mistakes they made and the mess they left behind.
But despite all the negativity that continues to spread like wildfire, I still stay hopefuly that the future will be a bright one. While I admit there are certain quarters who only fill me with a sense of regret - regret in the fact they will never know of change until it's too late - I see a handful of my friends who continue to give me hope, that there still is good in the heart of Mankind. Could we be the last of Man who can redeem itself of its sins? If God does decide that his covenant with Noah has been broken by our actions, would He bring Judgment Day upon us all without hesitation?
Who would He spare in that time?
I can only pray that, in time, I will have the answers I seek.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Insights
People tend to contradict the words of others and turn them into a whole new meaning. Whether by accident or otherwise, this occurence may lead to disastrous results if left alone. We can easily see it happening all around us, be it here in the country or somewhere abroad.
Because of these ignorant parties, words or phrases that mean no harm at all can suddenly become insulting, defamatory or slanderous to others that lead to unwanted consequences. Haven't we learned from our mistakes? And if that's not enough, when asked to apologize, these people defiantly justify their actions or words that it only enrages the opposing side even further. Nobody ever considers a more peaceable approach to solving the matter immediately. The long tirades of insults will continue for centuries to come.
And let's not forget the bigger problems that stem from their need of justification; war, riots, political turmoil - the list goes on.
In fact, in the Exodus, it is mentioned how, after Moses and Aaron bade to Pharaoh to let the people of God go, Pharaoh told all his taskmasters and officers:
While Moses brought God's word to Pharaoh, that Pharaoh should let the Israelites go in peace, Pharaoh may have thought Moses was planning to lead a revolution against the Egyptians. Because he did not see how he had brought misery to the Israelites by enslaving them, Pharaoh believed that he had to control them further by tightening his grip over the Israelites. The same picture might just happen in the near future.
But we're not here to discuss of the bigger picture. Instead, we should look at it from the personal point-of-view. Everything starts here: from ourselves. So if we want to really change the world, we need to change ourselves.
To see how we inevitably lead ourselves to self-destruction is a saddening sight indeed. How we tend to believe in only ourselves. How we choose to alter the words of others, or in our beliefs and principles. How we do not want to tolerate others. Or not to live a compassionate life. Or to ignore the cries of anguish from the lost, the least and the lonely. Don't we get it? And when will we get it?
Nobody can truly justify what is true and what is false. Everyone holds a certain stand to a certain topic, and it may not be so easy to change their mindset. Like how a victim of rape may see all men as lustful monsters, or an ex-convict seeking to atone his sins may not be welcomed back into society. Hardline stances are hard to change when they do not have a valid reason into actions or events that will change them. We are a difficult bunch to please.
And let's not forget there will be detractors. They will always find some way to stand for the things they believe is 'right'. But again, what is right and what is wrong to Man? Does it satisfy the requisites as mentioned in your beliefs or religion? Does it seem logically sound? How we accept the information is up to what influences us. It is just like when St. John Baptist De La Salle faced the 'Writing Masters', those who preached the old ways of education, in court numerous times. The Writing Masters saw La Salle as a threat to their sovereignty as the only ones who were fit to educate the young. And because they did not want to change, to conform to something that was truly righteous, they went against La Salle many times.
The question that remains is whether we truly sate everyone's wants and needs. There is, without a doubt, no real way to substantiate this claim. We all have our own wishes and desires. But if we can open our hearts to the reality that no one is wrong in what they believe in, mayhaps the world would be so much more peaceful. The longer our misunderstandings remain, the deeper our enmity with one another.
I do not think our respective God wanted us to live this way.
Because of these ignorant parties, words or phrases that mean no harm at all can suddenly become insulting, defamatory or slanderous to others that lead to unwanted consequences. Haven't we learned from our mistakes? And if that's not enough, when asked to apologize, these people defiantly justify their actions or words that it only enrages the opposing side even further. Nobody ever considers a more peaceable approach to solving the matter immediately. The long tirades of insults will continue for centuries to come.
And let's not forget the bigger problems that stem from their need of justification; war, riots, political turmoil - the list goes on.
In fact, in the Exodus, it is mentioned how, after Moses and Aaron bade to Pharaoh to let the people of God go, Pharaoh told all his taskmasters and officers:
"Ye shall no more give the people straw to make brick, as heretofore: let them go and gather straw for themselves. And the tale of the bricks, which they did make heretofore, you shall lay upon them; you shall not diminish ought thereof: for they be idle; therefore they cry, saying, 'Let us go and sacrifice to our God.' Let there more work be laid upon the men, that they may labour therein; and let them not regard vain words." (Exodus 5:7-9)And from there, the Israelites continued to suffer.
While Moses brought God's word to Pharaoh, that Pharaoh should let the Israelites go in peace, Pharaoh may have thought Moses was planning to lead a revolution against the Egyptians. Because he did not see how he had brought misery to the Israelites by enslaving them, Pharaoh believed that he had to control them further by tightening his grip over the Israelites. The same picture might just happen in the near future.
But we're not here to discuss of the bigger picture. Instead, we should look at it from the personal point-of-view. Everything starts here: from ourselves. So if we want to really change the world, we need to change ourselves.
To see how we inevitably lead ourselves to self-destruction is a saddening sight indeed. How we tend to believe in only ourselves. How we choose to alter the words of others, or in our beliefs and principles. How we do not want to tolerate others. Or not to live a compassionate life. Or to ignore the cries of anguish from the lost, the least and the lonely. Don't we get it? And when will we get it?
Nobody can truly justify what is true and what is false. Everyone holds a certain stand to a certain topic, and it may not be so easy to change their mindset. Like how a victim of rape may see all men as lustful monsters, or an ex-convict seeking to atone his sins may not be welcomed back into society. Hardline stances are hard to change when they do not have a valid reason into actions or events that will change them. We are a difficult bunch to please.
And let's not forget there will be detractors. They will always find some way to stand for the things they believe is 'right'. But again, what is right and what is wrong to Man? Does it satisfy the requisites as mentioned in your beliefs or religion? Does it seem logically sound? How we accept the information is up to what influences us. It is just like when St. John Baptist De La Salle faced the 'Writing Masters', those who preached the old ways of education, in court numerous times. The Writing Masters saw La Salle as a threat to their sovereignty as the only ones who were fit to educate the young. And because they did not want to change, to conform to something that was truly righteous, they went against La Salle many times.
The question that remains is whether we truly sate everyone's wants and needs. There is, without a doubt, no real way to substantiate this claim. We all have our own wishes and desires. But if we can open our hearts to the reality that no one is wrong in what they believe in, mayhaps the world would be so much more peaceful. The longer our misunderstandings remain, the deeper our enmity with one another.
I do not think our respective God wanted us to live this way.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Insights: Of Tolerance and Opinions
Just recently I received a religious joke and, I admit, found it funny. But when I shared it with another, she was offended.
So before I continue I humbly apologize to anyone else who shares the same sentiments as this friend of mine. I've learned well from the experience.
It made me think about tolerance: what do we really tolerate? And in the context of sensitive issues such as this, how much CAN we tolerate?
It is undeniable that tolerance is a virtue. With it, we can actually put up with the numerous behaviors Man can provide - no matter how absurd or horrifying it may be. Some people have the tolerance level of a Zen monk. Some others are gravely offended by even the smallest of quirks. Some let it slide. Others find it difficult to forgive and forget.
But what do we tolerate?
For some, tolerance is invaluable. Certain quarters (usually a very small minority of the world's population) find it very easy to just brush something aside as light-hearted humor. Despite the message it may carry, or the implications it may bring in the long run, these men and women can just laugh it off and forget about it almost immediately so that they can avoid unwanted confrontations that can end even the strongest of friendships. How these people actually hold up to even some of the most insulting remarks is beyond anyone's comprehension. Some would call them "not right in their heads," but they're just as normal as you and I.
There have been instances where people who have a high amount of tolerance can turn things around to work for him. Enemies can become friends, bad situations turn into good ones, etctera. While these may sound like they come from some hit TV dramas, they are a reality. It's just that we've never seen it happen before, nor have we experience something like it. It's something like friends having a blast from poking fun at a fellow buddy, but at the end of the day they still go out for a drink and share lots of laughs without caring of what they said.
You might say it's nothing to do with tolerance. But believe me, if you look closely it's very deeply intertwined in that example.
On the other side of the fence though, there still exists handfuls of people who take offense pretty easily. It's not that they have no sense of humor or because they're overly-sensitive. It's the same as how some people prefer chocolate ice cream and others strawberry ice cream. (Personally I enjoy both!) They just have different opinions about what is being discussed, for isn't that what separates us from the rest? So while you might enjoy Russell Peter's antics as he seemingly insults numerous races across the globe, some may find it grossly racist. To them, making such jokes does not have any logical rational or even simply for comedy's sake. But should we really blame them?
The pro-tolerance people would shrug it off and get on with life. The opposites would definitely find lots to complain about, or would prefer to quietly keep it to themselves. IF you do want to tell me that you're either going with the former or the latter or, perhaps, just sit on the fence, I got no say to your choice. When it comes to tolerance, our choice of opinions matter most.
In a world where the little things could spark the largest of conflicts, it's no surprise that we have a very equal number of opposites in the subject of thinking. It's not like I want to separate Man into two or more separate camps in the school of thought, but merely point out everyone has their opinions on anything. If you ask anyone the same question, you're bound to get a lot of different answers to it. It's unavoidable. Everyone has their say, depending on their beliefs and principles.
If I ask you about euthanasia (mercy killing/pulling the plug; this shall be discussed in a later article) I'm definitely sure you have your thoughts. Some of you may agree that patients have a right to choose whether to live or not; some of you will feel death is not the final solution. It's all a matter of opinion. (Though on the subject of euthanasia, I have my doubts on the implications of legalizing it. More later)
As I was about to finish this up, I decided to ask my friend (the one whom I had told the joke to) of her opinion on the matter. She said: "Well, I would give that person the look and say that's not nice. Not because I'm religious but as a person with some common sense, we shouldn't make fun of people's beliefs."
So to end this topic, I would like to ask you the same question I asked her: if a friend of yours were to make a religious/racist joke - note that the term is JOKE, not REMARK, please; there is a large difference between both terms - and did not actually mean to insult or offend any parties, how would you react - especially if your religion/race is mentioned? Would you pass it off as 'comedy', or would you reprimand your friend for being so insolent? What is the reason for your reaction?
Do leave me your honest opinions after reading this. Your insights will help me understand the topic further and, maybe, we shall discuss it in depth. Cheers!
So before I continue I humbly apologize to anyone else who shares the same sentiments as this friend of mine. I've learned well from the experience.
It made me think about tolerance: what do we really tolerate? And in the context of sensitive issues such as this, how much CAN we tolerate?
It is undeniable that tolerance is a virtue. With it, we can actually put up with the numerous behaviors Man can provide - no matter how absurd or horrifying it may be. Some people have the tolerance level of a Zen monk. Some others are gravely offended by even the smallest of quirks. Some let it slide. Others find it difficult to forgive and forget.
But what do we tolerate?
For some, tolerance is invaluable. Certain quarters (usually a very small minority of the world's population) find it very easy to just brush something aside as light-hearted humor. Despite the message it may carry, or the implications it may bring in the long run, these men and women can just laugh it off and forget about it almost immediately so that they can avoid unwanted confrontations that can end even the strongest of friendships. How these people actually hold up to even some of the most insulting remarks is beyond anyone's comprehension. Some would call them "not right in their heads," but they're just as normal as you and I.
There have been instances where people who have a high amount of tolerance can turn things around to work for him. Enemies can become friends, bad situations turn into good ones, etctera. While these may sound like they come from some hit TV dramas, they are a reality. It's just that we've never seen it happen before, nor have we experience something like it. It's something like friends having a blast from poking fun at a fellow buddy, but at the end of the day they still go out for a drink and share lots of laughs without caring of what they said.
You might say it's nothing to do with tolerance. But believe me, if you look closely it's very deeply intertwined in that example.
On the other side of the fence though, there still exists handfuls of people who take offense pretty easily. It's not that they have no sense of humor or because they're overly-sensitive. It's the same as how some people prefer chocolate ice cream and others strawberry ice cream. (Personally I enjoy both!) They just have different opinions about what is being discussed, for isn't that what separates us from the rest? So while you might enjoy Russell Peter's antics as he seemingly insults numerous races across the globe, some may find it grossly racist. To them, making such jokes does not have any logical rational or even simply for comedy's sake. But should we really blame them?
The pro-tolerance people would shrug it off and get on with life. The opposites would definitely find lots to complain about, or would prefer to quietly keep it to themselves. IF you do want to tell me that you're either going with the former or the latter or, perhaps, just sit on the fence, I got no say to your choice. When it comes to tolerance, our choice of opinions matter most.
In a world where the little things could spark the largest of conflicts, it's no surprise that we have a very equal number of opposites in the subject of thinking. It's not like I want to separate Man into two or more separate camps in the school of thought, but merely point out everyone has their opinions on anything. If you ask anyone the same question, you're bound to get a lot of different answers to it. It's unavoidable. Everyone has their say, depending on their beliefs and principles.
If I ask you about euthanasia (mercy killing/pulling the plug; this shall be discussed in a later article) I'm definitely sure you have your thoughts. Some of you may agree that patients have a right to choose whether to live or not; some of you will feel death is not the final solution. It's all a matter of opinion. (Though on the subject of euthanasia, I have my doubts on the implications of legalizing it. More later)
As I was about to finish this up, I decided to ask my friend (the one whom I had told the joke to) of her opinion on the matter. She said: "Well, I would give that person the look and say that's not nice. Not because I'm religious but as a person with some common sense, we shouldn't make fun of people's beliefs."
So to end this topic, I would like to ask you the same question I asked her: if a friend of yours were to make a religious/racist joke - note that the term is JOKE, not REMARK, please; there is a large difference between both terms - and did not actually mean to insult or offend any parties, how would you react - especially if your religion/race is mentioned? Would you pass it off as 'comedy', or would you reprimand your friend for being so insolent? What is the reason for your reaction?
Do leave me your honest opinions after reading this. Your insights will help me understand the topic further and, maybe, we shall discuss it in depth. Cheers!
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Insights
Flipping through the recent edition of the ODJ, I had a flash of inspiration: add quotes sourced from religions across the world (if not the minor ones, then at least the major ones will do) in my posts. Well, depending on the context I intend to use it with.
I don't know. Personally, if one can find inspiration from their respective religious scriptures, then surely it should be shared. Rather than waste our time fighting each other we should be doing more good in the name of our respective gods. Tolerance is a better solution than confrontation.
On to today's topic:
There is a story in Buddhist circles, when the Buddha held up a flower in front of an audience of 1250 monks. He did not say anything for quite a while. Suddenly, he smiled. He smiled because someone in the audience, a monk named Mahakashyapa, smiled at him and the flower he was holding. The monk was the only person who smiled, and the Buddha then said, "I have a treasure of insight and I have transmitted it to Mahakashyapa."
Indeed, many Buddhists continue to wonder what was the meaning behind the story. But, according to the Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh, the meaning is simple: when you are given a flower to admire, the person offering it to you wants you to see it - not think about it, not ponder about it, but just to see it. If you kept on thinking about it, you miss the flower. 'The person who is not thinking,' Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh says, 'but just being himself, will be able to encounter the flower in depth.'
Does that ring a bell? In conclusion: the more we're not living in the present, the more we will miss. We shouldn't keep ourselves so preoccupied in our problems and worries; sometimes, we should just let them slide. Then we will realize life is truly a beautiful experience. Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh also has this to add:
Think about it. Cheers, all.
I don't know. Personally, if one can find inspiration from their respective religious scriptures, then surely it should be shared. Rather than waste our time fighting each other we should be doing more good in the name of our respective gods. Tolerance is a better solution than confrontation.
On to today's topic:
There is a story in Buddhist circles, when the Buddha held up a flower in front of an audience of 1250 monks. He did not say anything for quite a while. Suddenly, he smiled. He smiled because someone in the audience, a monk named Mahakashyapa, smiled at him and the flower he was holding. The monk was the only person who smiled, and the Buddha then said, "I have a treasure of insight and I have transmitted it to Mahakashyapa."
Indeed, many Buddhists continue to wonder what was the meaning behind the story. But, according to the Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh, the meaning is simple: when you are given a flower to admire, the person offering it to you wants you to see it - not think about it, not ponder about it, but just to see it. If you kept on thinking about it, you miss the flower. 'The person who is not thinking,' Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh says, 'but just being himself, will be able to encounter the flower in depth.'
Does that ring a bell? In conclusion: the more we're not living in the present, the more we will miss. We shouldn't keep ourselves so preoccupied in our problems and worries; sometimes, we should just let them slide. Then we will realize life is truly a beautiful experience. Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh also has this to add:
"Living in peace is something we all want. But I would like to ask: Do we have the capacity of enjoying peace? If peace were here would you be able to enjoy it... or would you find it boring? To me, peace, happiness, joy and life all go together, and we can experience them right in the present moment. It is always available to us but if we are not able to experience it, how can we make peace grow?
"When I have a toothache, I discover that not having a toothache is a wonderful experience. That is peace. I had to have a toothache in order to be enlightened, to know that not having it is wonderful. My non-toothache is peace, is joy. But when I do not have a toothache, I do not seem to be happy. So if I look deeply into the present moment, I will understand and appreciate that if I don't have a toothache, it should indeed make me very happy.
"I know a doctor who lost her eyesight... To her, to be able to see again would be a miracle. She says that she would be in paradise if she could recover her eyesight. Based on this incident, most of us would already be in paradise because we have eyes capable of seeing. When we open our eyes, we can see the blue sky... lovely flowers, and beautiful children. But are we happy with ourselves? So we need to remind ourselves to be mindful that we have eyes to appreciate the beauty of life."
Think about it. Cheers, all.
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Thoughts: Faith And Lessons II
On the 23rd of May I got a message from good ol' Venkeeran:
There are definitely days when the fight gets too tough. But as what is said above, faith keeps the fire burning bright. No matter what religion you are, take heart: your respective God is always there by your side.
To quote Halo: "Finish the Fight."
Cheers.
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."
~ 2 Corinthians 12:9
Anyone can take on a challenge, but the victory goes to the one who overcomes. Draw your strength from God when you feel weak, and your fight will seem less of a battle with God on your side.
There are definitely days when the fight gets too tough. But as what is said above, faith keeps the fire burning bright. No matter what religion you are, take heart: your respective God is always there by your side.
To quote Halo: "Finish the Fight."
Cheers.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Thoughts: Faith And Lessons
(Unless you're not a freethinker or liberal, I suggest that you read this to the very end)
Came back from an INFUSE event held some time ago. Many thanks to Venkeeran for the sudden yet meaningful invite. Truly appreciate it, dear friend.
Despite the fact I am not Christian, I am always amazed at the amount of faith the youth of today have for Jesus and God. Like tonight's event, so full of song and praise and fervant belief in the Creator. Oh, words fail to describe such a wonderful scene!
The mini gig was one thing, but the guest speaker for the night - Pastor Rudy - was truly the highlight. He touched upon two very interesting topics: perceptions, the choices that we make, and to look forward and never backward. His words fired up the crowd, and they were entertaining and also thought-provoking at the same time.
So let's see how I can pass his words in my own interpretation. Hopefully, the meaning is still retained.
1. PERCEPTIONS
Two people, who possess the same job, pay, car, etcetera, may be similar at first glance. But what differentiates them are their perceptions.
For example, one of the two mentioned above may come into the office, and complain and crab and blabber and gossip and what-not, about almost anything that bugs his head. The negativity easily diffuses into the office atmosphere, and everyone starts to feel as bad as he does.
But then the other comes along and exclaims out loud: "Man, today is a GOOD day and I'm loving it!" And the next thing you know, the entire office gains a positive mood.
Two people with similar backgrounds. What differs are their attitudes, their perceptions. Should we not be like the positive one? For it is said that whatever we say, it is prophesied as your future. This is more or less what is said in Rhonda Byrne's The Secret, whereby your thoughts decide whether good or bad comes to you. Here, it's words. But even if you're not Christian, there is some truth to what is being said.
Why so? Well, technically, what we say actually influences our actions and thoughts in future because we believe in them. If we look in the mirror and say, "Man, I look terrible," it might stick for a very long time. Unless you change your words from vitriol and disgust into words of encouragement and positivity, you might not move on from where you are now.
2. CHOICES
The choices we make determine our destiny. So was written at the event. Who can deny it?
While one's perceptions points us in the direction that we are going, the choices we make move us to opportunities that will shape our lives - whether these may be in the form of obstacles to overcome, or even moments of utter joy to cherish. It is all in what we choose that counts.
But it's not to say that choices alone are important. As mentioned above, if your perceptions are cloudy and dark you might find yourself stuck in the same spot. You might be successful at that point, but if you want to expand your horizons you may not be able to move any further.
And speaking of choices, there are always times when we have to make difficult choices that may very well alter the course of our future. It may be forgiving someone who has wronged you deeply. It may be kicking an old habit that has been detrimental to you in some way or other. Or maybe it's mending bridges with your parents.
Difficulty is assured. It might just take you days, months or maybe even years just to make that one choice. One choice! But that one choice may be a life-changing event for you. And believe me, it may just turn your life around for the better. So think it through, weigh the options carefully and cast your dice.
3. LOOKING FORWARD
We are usually told to look back on our achievements or memories and take them as examples. (Or some other) While it is a good thing, it must be said that we cannot always hold ourselves back in the past, for we must move on to the future.
How can we just keep lingering in the past? If we hold onto it for too long, we'll only be looking to what we have done then rather than what we can do now. Would that really work? What was then doesn't necessarily mean it would be the same now, nor would methods from the past work again in the future.
Just like the choices we made, should we actually let our regrets and our burdens bog us down deep?
We need to realize that it's no use holding on to old hatreds, old grudges, old memories, etcetera. While some memories should always remain clear in our mind, never let them get the best of you. Never let your thoughts get to you till you prefer to stay in your comfort zone. It is necessary to go out of that zone and venture into something new.
Take heart, people. All you need to have is faith. Whatever your religion may be, always have faith in your religion's principles. If you have doubts, never hesitate to ask your pastor/imam/priest any questions you have doubts on.
Cheers for now!
Came back from an INFUSE event held some time ago. Many thanks to Venkeeran for the sudden yet meaningful invite. Truly appreciate it, dear friend.
Despite the fact I am not Christian, I am always amazed at the amount of faith the youth of today have for Jesus and God. Like tonight's event, so full of song and praise and fervant belief in the Creator. Oh, words fail to describe such a wonderful scene!
The mini gig was one thing, but the guest speaker for the night - Pastor Rudy - was truly the highlight. He touched upon two very interesting topics: perceptions, the choices that we make, and to look forward and never backward. His words fired up the crowd, and they were entertaining and also thought-provoking at the same time.
So let's see how I can pass his words in my own interpretation. Hopefully, the meaning is still retained.
1. PERCEPTIONS
Two people, who possess the same job, pay, car, etcetera, may be similar at first glance. But what differentiates them are their perceptions.
For example, one of the two mentioned above may come into the office, and complain and crab and blabber and gossip and what-not, about almost anything that bugs his head. The negativity easily diffuses into the office atmosphere, and everyone starts to feel as bad as he does.
But then the other comes along and exclaims out loud: "Man, today is a GOOD day and I'm loving it!" And the next thing you know, the entire office gains a positive mood.
Two people with similar backgrounds. What differs are their attitudes, their perceptions. Should we not be like the positive one? For it is said that whatever we say, it is prophesied as your future. This is more or less what is said in Rhonda Byrne's The Secret, whereby your thoughts decide whether good or bad comes to you. Here, it's words. But even if you're not Christian, there is some truth to what is being said.
Why so? Well, technically, what we say actually influences our actions and thoughts in future because we believe in them. If we look in the mirror and say, "Man, I look terrible," it might stick for a very long time. Unless you change your words from vitriol and disgust into words of encouragement and positivity, you might not move on from where you are now.
2. CHOICES
The choices we make determine our destiny. So was written at the event. Who can deny it?
While one's perceptions points us in the direction that we are going, the choices we make move us to opportunities that will shape our lives - whether these may be in the form of obstacles to overcome, or even moments of utter joy to cherish. It is all in what we choose that counts.
But it's not to say that choices alone are important. As mentioned above, if your perceptions are cloudy and dark you might find yourself stuck in the same spot. You might be successful at that point, but if you want to expand your horizons you may not be able to move any further.
And speaking of choices, there are always times when we have to make difficult choices that may very well alter the course of our future. It may be forgiving someone who has wronged you deeply. It may be kicking an old habit that has been detrimental to you in some way or other. Or maybe it's mending bridges with your parents.
Difficulty is assured. It might just take you days, months or maybe even years just to make that one choice. One choice! But that one choice may be a life-changing event for you. And believe me, it may just turn your life around for the better. So think it through, weigh the options carefully and cast your dice.
3. LOOKING FORWARD
We are usually told to look back on our achievements or memories and take them as examples. (Or some other) While it is a good thing, it must be said that we cannot always hold ourselves back in the past, for we must move on to the future.
How can we just keep lingering in the past? If we hold onto it for too long, we'll only be looking to what we have done then rather than what we can do now. Would that really work? What was then doesn't necessarily mean it would be the same now, nor would methods from the past work again in the future.
Just like the choices we made, should we actually let our regrets and our burdens bog us down deep?
We need to realize that it's no use holding on to old hatreds, old grudges, old memories, etcetera. While some memories should always remain clear in our mind, never let them get the best of you. Never let your thoughts get to you till you prefer to stay in your comfort zone. It is necessary to go out of that zone and venture into something new.
Take heart, people. All you need to have is faith. Whatever your religion may be, always have faith in your religion's principles. If you have doubts, never hesitate to ask your pastor/imam/priest any questions you have doubts on.
Cheers for now!
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Just Gotta have Faith
I hope I won't offend anyone if I write this. If there are any problems in this post, or if you feel something in this post should be addressed (as it may offend you or you find it one-sided or whatever), please inform me ASAP and I will rectify it AS FAST AS I CAN. The last thing I wanna do is start a controversy! (Oh, and don't worry, I'm making this note only viewable by Friends)
When it comes to faith, there's not much that we can share that's the same about our religions, except certain aspects of religious principles, like don't commit any form of sin or respect and love your parents. All religions have differences in terms of worship and other principles and customs. But here in Malaysia it's nice to see how every one is united despite our differences in our faiths.
Then we look at the world. The reason why I've stopped myself from reading the news is because every time I do, I am saddened by what is going on in the globe today: so much destruction, so much death, so much sorrow. And no, it's not about Mother Nature wreaking havoc worldwide.
I mean, can't we all just get along, for once?
We are continually striving for peace in every country worldwide. We always preach the importance of being united for the benefits of all Mankind. But now, so many are intent on spreading dissent, anarchy, tyranny and ruin to the lives of the untold billions who call Earth home. And mostly it's because of our faith.
From my observations, I came up with a principle (please note: PRINCIPLE) to living called the Unitarian mind-set. It defines that the religion we practise in our lives as our own, but also readily accepts the religion of others, no matter the differences between them. Instead, it calls for the need to focus on similarities and work from there to create understanding and tolerance. Thankfully, much of the world's population follows the Unitarian mind-set adherently, and the best example would be us Malaysians.
Ever since we achieved our independance, the three primary races - Malays, Chinese, Indians - have come together to form the backbone of the Malaysian population. And it's already been 53 years; look at where we are now! Still as united, and now growing strong. Heck, the 1Malaysia concept isn't even necessary! We've made it through so far for 53 years and though we have come across some major problems (1969 comes to mind) we're still making it through together. Just because of certain individuals who question the matter doesn't have to lead us to making such life-changing decisions. It impacts negatively on every one of us.
We shouldn't be fighting at all! We should stay harmonious, loving one another as brothers and sisters who share the same beloved homeland, not involved ourselves in useless bickering and arguing that's taking us round in circles! No way! Embrace our identity. Live as a united community. And start working to greatness.
Still on the subject of faith, when it comes to converting, that shouldn't be brought up as a problem as well. It is ultimately the choice of the individual in question. Sure, many people would be mortified to hear of people changing religion, and some even are cruel enough to shun them. Hello, that's not the way to do it!
Like I said, it is all a matter of the individual. But you may ask "won't a person's God condemn them for all eternity?" Now that question has meaning to it. This is because many people state that their God won't be pleased about it, and may punish them for the rest of their life. (And even up till the point when they end up in Heaven or Hell!) But haven't you been hearing that a lot of people are becoming Christians? I'm sure you have.
Now don't get me wrong. There is a certain attachment I feel to the Christian faith, even though I am a Buddhist. (Yes I am, for those who didn't know!) In fact, sometimes I quote from what I've learned in the Christian faith (like from the Bible, or from my own opinions) and sometimes I share the fiery and devoted faith my friends carry - of their love to God. I know many friends who are like that, especially those who have been Christian all their life. I know friends who converted despite being of a separate religion earlier on. (In these cases, their family subsequently converts, or they don't but still accept their child's decision) I even know friends who have been touched by God, but cannot convert because of their families.
Not long ago (unless you consider close to six months as LONG), I had a friend who shared that kind of experience - love for God, but no support from parents. When I initially heard that she wanted to be a Christian (she's Buddhist) I encouraged her to do so without hesitation. Hell, I was happy for her too! ("What?" some of you might say) Then she added how his parents fiercely disagree with her decision. And because she didn't want to let them down, she didn't convert. Well, correction: she HASN'T converted yet, that's what I say.
I feel for her, and those who face that kind of problem. Even though I'm not a Christian, it doesn't mean I should be condemning my friend for changing faith. It's not right or rational for me to just tell her off and stop being her friend! Instead, I know that she has a connection to God now, and I should let her continue that connection and build a healthy relationship with her Creator. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to talk to her about this because of her reluctance, but I do hope that through this post she will be reinvigorated to have faith in God. Perhaps it'll invigorate you too!
Hey, don't get me wrong here! I'm not asking her to rebel against her parents! No way! But if you have a true undying love for God, stop thinking He's forsaken you and stuff! You should always let Him be part of your life. Even if your parents are doing their own religious stuff and you're there with them, do it too, and do it with an honest heart. Show respect to your parents. Once that, go back to your faith. And if you think it helps (or if you don't practise this) always have a prayer to God at night before bedtime, thanking Him for all the blessings and joy that day, and how you can go about repaying His love for you. (I will elaborate more on repaying God in a future post) Well, your prayer can be anything you want it to be. After all, YOU are communicating with God!
(NOTE: To my Christian friends, do you do this prayer thing everyday? I'm curious as to know if it's universally adopted, or it may just be me watching too many movies.)
Well, you might be saying: "Say, he skipped the original question by jumping to some other point!" Well, yes I did. When it comes to being condemned for changing your faith, I cannot really determine what the Gods have to say about their flock migrating to another faith. It's up to Them, ultimately. But I believe that They know what's best for us humans. They'd probably have a good laugh about it too! I mean, you'll never know what a God thinks of. But do remember they are omniscient. They see all, know all, and hear all. And I'm sure They have more tolerance than we do for each other.
But if there's anything I love doing, it's learning new things from other religions. I have a friend whose family practises the Baiah faith. (Correct me if I'm wrong about the spelling please!) This religion actually accepts all other religions as one united entity that is God. When I learned of it, I was surprised! And thrilled too, because I've always been a Unitarian for quite a while now. So I told myself, "That's enlightening!" and I learned something new and I add that to my list of values.
I also love the fact our generation is full of super-devoted people. And they don't even mind if you're not part of their religion. They still treat you equally! I remember when I was at a Christian event held in MC (no, you girls won't know me from there, except for a mutual friend who invited me, and other friends who went there) called The Reveal that was held last year. Towards the end, they had this appreciation ceremony of sorts (correct me if any of this is wrong) when the band was playing a faithful song and other members were busy talking to everyone about how they love God and how much He loves them, and things like that. Fueling faith, I call it. So anyway, one of them came to me to do the same, but I politely told him I'm not a Christian. He softly said with a smile: "That's okay. God still loves you anyway." I'll never forget those words.
So if you have your thoughts on religions, I'm pretty sure you've a lot to share too. But please be mindful of your words! We don't want a full-blown crusade to happen, do we?
I hope this has opened your eyes on how we see religion. =)
Cheers for now!
When it comes to faith, there's not much that we can share that's the same about our religions, except certain aspects of religious principles, like don't commit any form of sin or respect and love your parents. All religions have differences in terms of worship and other principles and customs. But here in Malaysia it's nice to see how every one is united despite our differences in our faiths.
Then we look at the world. The reason why I've stopped myself from reading the news is because every time I do, I am saddened by what is going on in the globe today: so much destruction, so much death, so much sorrow. And no, it's not about Mother Nature wreaking havoc worldwide.
I mean, can't we all just get along, for once?
We are continually striving for peace in every country worldwide. We always preach the importance of being united for the benefits of all Mankind. But now, so many are intent on spreading dissent, anarchy, tyranny and ruin to the lives of the untold billions who call Earth home. And mostly it's because of our faith.
From my observations, I came up with a principle (please note: PRINCIPLE) to living called the Unitarian mind-set. It defines that the religion we practise in our lives as our own, but also readily accepts the religion of others, no matter the differences between them. Instead, it calls for the need to focus on similarities and work from there to create understanding and tolerance. Thankfully, much of the world's population follows the Unitarian mind-set adherently, and the best example would be us Malaysians.
Ever since we achieved our independance, the three primary races - Malays, Chinese, Indians - have come together to form the backbone of the Malaysian population. And it's already been 53 years; look at where we are now! Still as united, and now growing strong. Heck, the 1Malaysia concept isn't even necessary! We've made it through so far for 53 years and though we have come across some major problems (1969 comes to mind
We shouldn't be fighting at all! We should stay harmonious, loving one another as brothers and sisters who share the same beloved homeland, not involved ourselves in useless bickering and arguing that's taking us round in circles! No way! Embrace our identity. Live as a united community. And start working to greatness.
Still on the subject of faith, when it comes to converting, that shouldn't be brought up as a problem as well. It is ultimately the choice of the individual in question. Sure, many people would be mortified to hear of people changing religion, and some even are cruel enough to shun them. Hello, that's not the way to do it!
Like I said, it is all a matter of the individual. But you may ask "won't a person's God condemn them for all eternity?" Now that question has meaning to it. This is because many people state that their God won't be pleased about it, and may punish them for the rest of their life. (And even up till the point when they end up in Heaven or Hell!) But haven't you been hearing that a lot of people are becoming Christians? I'm sure you have.
Now don't get me wrong. There is a certain attachment I feel to the Christian faith, even though I am a Buddhist. (Yes I am, for those who didn't know!) In fact, sometimes I quote from what I've learned in the Christian faith (like from the Bible, or from my own opinions) and sometimes I share the fiery and devoted faith my friends carry - of their love to God. I know many friends who are like that, especially those who have been Christian all their life. I know friends who converted despite being of a separate religion earlier on. (In these cases, their family subsequently converts, or they don't but still accept their child's decision) I even know friends who have been touched by God, but cannot convert because of their families.
Not long ago (unless you consider close to six months as LONG), I had a friend who shared that kind of experience - love for God, but no support from parents. When I initially heard that she wanted to be a Christian (she's Buddhist) I encouraged her to do so without hesitation. Hell, I was happy for her too! ("What?" some of you might say) Then she added how his parents fiercely disagree with her decision. And because she didn't want to let them down, she didn't convert. Well, correction: she HASN'T converted yet, that's what I say.
I feel for her, and those who face that kind of problem. Even though I'm not a Christian, it doesn't mean I should be condemning my friend for changing faith. It's not right or rational for me to just tell her off and stop being her friend! Instead, I know that she has a connection to God now, and I should let her continue that connection and build a healthy relationship with her Creator. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to talk to her about this because of her reluctance, but I do hope that through this post she will be reinvigorated to have faith in God. Perhaps it'll invigorate you too!
Hey, don't get me wrong here! I'm not asking her to rebel against her parents! No way! But if you have a true undying love for God, stop thinking He's forsaken you and stuff! You should always let Him be part of your life. Even if your parents are doing their own religious stuff and you're there with them, do it too, and do it with an honest heart. Show respect to your parents. Once that, go back to your faith. And if you think it helps (or if you don't practise this) always have a prayer to God at night before bedtime, thanking Him for all the blessings and joy that day, and how you can go about repaying His love for you. (I will elaborate more on repaying God in a future post) Well, your prayer can be anything you want it to be. After all, YOU are communicating with God!
(NOTE: To my Christian friends, do you do this prayer thing everyday? I'm curious as to know if it's universally adopted, or it may just be me watching too many movies.)
Well, you might be saying: "Say, he skipped the original question by jumping to some other point!" Well, yes I did. When it comes to being condemned for changing your faith, I cannot really determine what the Gods have to say about their flock migrating to another faith. It's up to Them, ultimately. But I believe that They know what's best for us humans. They'd probably have a good laugh about it too! I mean, you'll never know what a God thinks of. But do remember they are omniscient. They see all, know all, and hear all. And I'm sure They have more tolerance than we do for each other.
But if there's anything I love doing, it's learning new things from other religions. I have a friend whose family practises the Baiah faith. (Correct me if I'm wrong about the spelling please!) This religion actually accepts all other religions as one united entity that is God. When I learned of it, I was surprised! And thrilled too, because I've always been a Unitarian for quite a while now. So I told myself, "That's enlightening!" and I learned something new and I add that to my list of values.
I also love the fact our generation is full of super-devoted people. And they don't even mind if you're not part of their religion. They still treat you equally! I remember when I was at a Christian event held in MC (no, you girls won't know me from there, except for a mutual friend who invited me, and other friends who went there) called The Reveal that was held last year. Towards the end, they had this appreciation ceremony of sorts (correct me if any of this is wrong) when the band was playing a faithful song and other members were busy talking to everyone about how they love God and how much He loves them, and things like that. Fueling faith, I call it. So anyway, one of them came to me to do the same, but I politely told him I'm not a Christian. He softly said with a smile: "That's okay. God still loves you anyway." I'll never forget those words.
So if you have your thoughts on religions, I'm pretty sure you've a lot to share too. But please be mindful of your words! We don't want a full-blown crusade to happen, do we?
I hope this has opened your eyes on how we see religion. =)
Cheers for now!
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